Sometimes it feels like God is really mean.
Sometimes it feels like God allows me to have false hope, knowing full well that my hope will soon be snuffed out into the darkness of despair. Why does He do that? Despair is never darker than in the wake of hope, and God knows the effect it has on us; the bible itself declares in Proverbs: “Hope deferred makes the heart sick”.
After my frustrating and hurtful performance review this week, I became a flurry of activity. I started asking around internally about any openings in other departments of my company, and I also started asking my broader network about external opportunities. Anything to get myself out of this very toxic, damaging work environment where I feel neither challenged nor supported; neither empowered nor appreciated.
Within 48 hours, I had three leads – all of them promising:
- Internally, I found out about a Senior Reporting & Analytics role that sounds absolutely perfect or both my interests and skill set.
- Externally, a friend in Consulting told me that his company is growing and looking to hire people with supply chain backgrounds and industry experience. My degree is in supply chain, and I have seven years’ worth of pertinent experience. It couldn’t be a better fit.
- Thirdly – completely out of the blue – a headhunter contacted me through LinkedIn to ask me about my interest in a Senior Market Intelligence position at a well-regarded company in my city. They were specifically looking for someone with experience evaluating electricity markets. Guess what I did from 2009 – 2010? Market analysis for regional electricity markets.
All three of these possible job opportunities not only showed up within two days of my hitting rock bottom, but they also each felt like Godsends – direct answers to prayer. Each one of them had a job description that was very specific to my exact interests and experience – uncanny in their specificity and perfect alignment with my work history.
I allowed myself to feel hopeful about my career for the first time in months. It looked like God was finally moving, after literally years of crying out for me to be released from my work situation. The only question was: which one of the three options did God intend for me to take?
Answer: D – None of the above.
When I started inquiring about the internal Reporting & Analytics role, I was told my boss had to provide her sign-off and approval. The chances of that happening are minuscule, although I continue to explore this option.
The Supply Chain Consulting role ended up being a no-go; with the continued low oil price, this company is now on a hiring freeze, though they were actively recruiting three months ago.
And the headhunter for the Market Intelligence role ended up contacting me back and saying that, although I have extensive experience in analyzing the Gulf Coast electricity markets, they are really looking for someone with experience in the Northeast markets. Really?! The skill sets are the same; all that is different is the market. They are significantly narrowing their skill pool with such restrictive requirements.
I am trying not to be angry with God. I am trying not to lose perspective on the fact that His ways are higher than mine and that He has a purpose in this. But why did He give me such false hope? Would it have been kinder not to show me these false leads at all? Or am I to be comforted by the fact that God CAN provide, whether or not He WILL?
In times like this, I have to remember to take my thoughts captive; to make them obedient to what I know to be True. God is a Good Father. He loves me and has good plans for me. And “a bruised reed he will not break, and a faintly burning wick he will not quench; he will faithfully bring forth justice.”
You and I are having parallel experiences this year… although I actually like my job, my manager, and my coworkers. A door appears to be opening, good and exciting things lie beyond the door, then suddenly it closes again. In my case, I can only assume that the Lord is preparing me for a change by these hints of possible change. In your case, I understand the frustration. As you say, God loves you and has good plans for you. He is preparing you for something good… but only He knows what it is. Keep hoping, keep trusting, and someday this all will make sense. Have a good rest-of-the-week. J.
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Thanks, J. I hope the same for you.
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He does work in mysterious ways. I always did my best to try to figure a way out of my job. Five years or more I looked. In the company, in the city, even in Utah, and nothing seemed to be working. I thought about going to school, but could never figure out which program. Until this one came along. Finally the right opportunity. I had the time, and the ability to get out here. We finally prayed and got the answer that we were supposed to be here. But it has been bumpy ever since. The house took way longer to sell than it should have etc. but I think if I would have tried to get a job and left my wife out there to sell it, it would have been a nightmare. I still don’t know how it is all supposed to work out yet, but we only got here in His time. It will work for you, just remember it will work on His time.
I’m so glad the right opportunity came along for you! As you say, the road might still be bumpy (like the house taking too long to sell), but He has a plan!
You better believe it. The road is bumpy, but I’m going in the right direction and you are so right. He does have a plan for us!
Yay us! And plans! And seeing them come to fruition before a literal 40 years in the wilderness!
Yep. Yeah us for finally taking big steps to get the heck out of our jobs that don’t fulfill us and find something new! Because we are trying to do what is right!
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