I used to hate getting shots. Every six weeks or so, I have to go into my allergist’s office to get my maintenance dosage of allergy shots. It takes 20 minutes to drive there, and I have to sit and wait for 20 minutes after getting the shots so they can make sure I’m not having an anaphylactic reaction; then it takes another 20 minutes to drive back home or to work. So every six weeks, I used to feel like I was wasting an hour of my day… until I figured out The System.
Now when it’s time for my allergy shots, I go get myself a latte. I throw my Kindle into my purse. I silence my phone and stick in my earbuds and listen to white noise to drown out the sounds of older patrons talking loudly or children whining or babies crying.
Now every six weeks – instead of feeling like I am wasting my time sitting in the doctor’s office – I get an extended period of time to sit in a comfy chair disconnected from the world and read a good book while drinking a freshly brewed latte. And it is heaven.
This morning when I went in for my six-week maintenance dose, I scanned the waiting room as I nestled down, and I spotted a sixteen-year-old girl who has already discovered The System. She had kicked off her shoes and pulled her feet up into her chair and was curled up with a thick paperback, oblivious to anyone but the characters in her story. I smiled to myself and thought, “She’s my people.”
I got my shots, enjoyed 20 minutes of uninterrupted reading, and walked outside to my car. On the way, I saw an attractive, well-dressed woman in her fifties perched on the hood of her lime green car. Her knees were drawn up to her chest as she basked in the sun and talked on her phone with a relaxed, lazy drawl. And I smiled to myself for the second time in half an hour, again thinking, “She’s my people.”
The sixteen-year-old with her paperback was me nearly two decades ago, and I imagine the woman on hood of her car is a portrait of Authentically Aurora in another two decades. These are my girls. These are my people.
Authentically Introverted Aurora
Authentically Aurora 
It’s so refreshing to spot “your people” in everyday life situations. Almost like there’s an automatic connection whether you ever speak or not. Thanks for sharing. 🙂
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Exactly! And with introverts like us, there’s more of a connection if you don’t speak, haha 😉
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Absolutely! 🙂 Haha
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I get to plug my headphones in at work and it is pure magic. Others like that are my people.
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That sounds glorious. People who don’t talk to people are my people.
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Then I am your people. I do all my talking with my writing.
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Though if I ever met you in person I might say, “Hello.”
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And I’d be okay with that. One hello every few years is tolerable. Also, you make me much less bitter than most people.
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We would have quite the conversation. Of course I would be exhausted after saying hi and would have to play video games for a while afterwards.
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And I would pull out the book I always keep in my purse and start reading. We would have a great time playing video games and reading and not talking.
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Right? Best hangout ever.
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❤
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I don’t have to deal with allergy shots–for which I am thankful. But when I have an appointment at the doctor or at the dentist, I bring a book. I read in the waiting room until I am called back; I read in the examining room until the doctor or dentist arrives. J.
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Smart man.
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This reminds me of my 50 minute commute.. most people would hate it, but I love the opportunity to catch up on my favorite podcasts and radio shows!
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Yes! Exactly! …you get me 🙂
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